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IF IT’S YOUR BIRTHDAY TOMORROW

There’s a fine line between allowing others to believe what they hope is true, while discreetly concealing certain facts you’d rather not discuss, and actually lying. Because you’re not speaking untruths, technically, there’s no problem. It’s just that if others learn what you’ve kept under wraps, they’ll be both disappointed and disillusioned. Challenging as facing and discussing these matters openly is in the short term, in the long run, you’ll be glad you did.

Aries March 20 – April 18

By no means are you secretive. But, at the same time, you’d rather keep certain matters to yourself, mostly because discussing them would take a lot of time and achieve very little. Or so you believe. Actually, others know more than you think they do and, more important, have worthwhile advice to offer.

Taurus April 19 – May 19

One of the great pleasures of enduring relationships is the understanding that comes with having known somebody, and their quirks, for ages. While that’s true, every once in a while issues will arise that need to be discussed. Talk things over, and soon. These are more important than you realise.

Gemini May 20 – June 20

Clear cut as certain matters are, others seem to be getting more confused by the day. This is no surprise. You’re in the run up to the Gemini Full Moon, in early December. While this is nearly two weeks away, it will bring both personal issues and those involving others to a head.

Cancer June 21 – July 21

While you can be easygoing about a lot of things others take far too seriously, trust is something you value. Deeply. And something that, if broken, can’t be easily regained. Despite that, if you can’t overlook recent very worrying issues, discuss them openly, with an eye to re-establishing that lost trust.

Leo July 22 – August 21

You don’t think of yourself as stubborn. And, in many ways, you’re not. However, there are several situations in which you don’t even consider change possible, so don’t realise it when you reject new ideas. Now, however, destiny is taking over. Soon you’ll have no choice but to make those changes.

Virgo August 22 – September 21

Life would be a lot easier if you had all the facts you need to make certain pressing decisions. But, actually, that lack of information is preventing you making plans you’d only have to rethink, possibly more than once. Actually, with early December’s Full Moon triggering dramatic changes, the less you’ve organised, the better.

Libra September 22 – October 22

Being a clever air sign, you think even the simplest of plans through before you take action. While usually this approach works, at the moment it would only complicate matters. With the actual circumstances changing every day, it’s less about making plans and more about rethinking them as those changes arise.

Scorpio October 23 – November 21

Few things annoy you more than those who pretend to be interested in what you’re thinking about or planning, but then start telling you what to do. From their perspective, they’re only making suggestions, nothing more. Recognise that, and you’ll feel more comfortable discussing their ideas, many of which are worth exploring.

Sagittarius November 22 – December 20

Being a fire sign, every once in a while, you need a change of pace if not a bit of genuine adventure. This is exactly what you’ll get, but it could mean venturing into territory you’ve always regarded as dull. Once, perhaps, it was. But as you’ll soon discover, that’s no longer the case.

Capricorn December 21 – January 18

When you decided not to mention certain issues, it was because others seemed to take them very seriously indeed and, in truth, they’re of little importance to you. Since then, however, sudden changes, and this means discussing exactly such matters. Think things through first, and keep those conversations brief.

Aquarius January 19 – February 17

As inquisitive as you can be about other people and what they’re doing, that doesn’t mean you want to get involved. This is something that not everybody understands. If you sense somebody misunderstands your interest in their activities, gently but firmly explain that it is merely interest, nothing more.

Pisces February 18 – March 19

Planning ahead may be wise, but with both circumstances and your own priorities shifting, and regularly, even the simplest of arrangements is unlikely to last for long. That being the case, you’re better off regarding most of what you organise as tentative, if not a bit of an experiment.